So, um, according to my calendar it’s December 1st today.
As in, the last month of this year. As in, just 31 days of 2014 remain. Well, like 30 and few hours at this point I suppose, but still. . . damn.
What the hell Mother Nature? Slow your roll already would you? I mean. Crap, what’s it gonna be January before we know it?
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I know that’s how it works.
I can deal, though, actually. Mostly because I can’t FUCKING WAIT for 2015 to get here, as a matter of fact. Cannot.Wait.
Not because I’m over 2014, not by any means; 2014 kicked some serious ass.
However, there are so many amazing things happening next year I can hardly stand it. I’m bursting at the seams with excitement over the unbelievable, out of this world, downright miracles are that filling up my google calendar like it’s 199. . 9… errr…. 2015.
Gratitude seems an entirely inadequate expression of how I feel right now about what has happened to date, and what is yet to happen still.
I am awed. Humbled. Most incredibly honored to be living the life I love right now.
The whole concept of visualizing to materialize has most clearly been at work, because, well, I’ve got my (sparkly) red pen out baby, and I’ve been kicking ass and taking names all year.
And all I can say is call me a Monkee, cuz’ people, #imabeliever.
Once I got a grip on my current reality, became clear about what I wanted, set my intentions and took positive action to move toward that, then, well, shit started happening.
Funny how that works out, that whole ask and you shall receive bit, isn’t it?
This understanding has been life changing for me; I’ve had a permanent shift in perspective. I can quite honestly no longer see the world as I used to.
It is so much more beautiful. So much more mysterious. So much more full. So much, well, joyful.
As a result of that shift, as one of the many things that has changed is my attitude about the holidays. That, I am actually quite over, actually. The yearly vomitrocious expulsion of Christmas crap from garages and attics, the nonstop live retelling of “The Berenstain Bears and The Gimmies,” and those fucking Christmas commercials.
Buy this. Get that. Have that. Save money buying people you barely know shit they don’t need.
Wrong, people; we are doing it wrong.
The stuff is not the point.
So, this year, I’m taking a page from my own notes and changing it up, again. I’m ditching the hypocrisy and working to create a more authentic experience.
The kids and I are doing the Twelve Days of Giving again, and you can follow us on instagram @ictfd #twelvedaysofgiving if you’re so inclined. In fact, we’d be tickled pink (red?) if you’d copy the idea and do it with your own family and friends too.
We decorated our house very simply, choosing just a few treasured pieces to display and setting the rest aside for donation or to use another time.
We are adhering to a few yearly family traditions like the advent ornament calendar, singing badly to Christmas music in the car, taking lights walks, and my Daughter and I are holding our annual date to the Nutcracker, fancy dresses and all.
My parents even kindly arranged for us to go cut a Christmas tree up in da’ mountains with them this past weekend (so, yes, we decapitated a tree in the forest. By ourselves. With a real saw. Yup. Not sure yet how I feel about that yet. I’ll let you know when my fingers thaw out next Spring).
But, speaking of said evergreen, what I DID very deliberately and conscientiously decide to do with oh’ tannenbaum this year, is turn it into something meaningful, rather than simply a big (pleasant smelling) needle dropping shrine for all things glass, shiny, and color-coordinated (don’t even pretend to be surprised about that part— I don’t.do.messy.trees — there isn’t enough yoga in my day to ground down that inner feng shui freak).
My children are both familiar with the law of attraction, how we invite that who and which we are. They know how to create a vision and set goals, and are (altogether too) familiar with purpose.
They get it. They don’t always apply it, but they get it.
So, in any case, we dialed it up a notch and made that concept into a “Thing.” Like a real thing, like a BFD, actually.
This year, we created a Tree of Possibilities together for Christmas.
That’s right, we made a miracle tree right here in our living room.
It’s amazing. Beautiful. Shining from floor to ceiling with opportunity and light.
Using blank ornaments and tags to record affirmations, wishes, goals and action statements, we created an image of our own future, sending out positive intentions to the universe.
With each addition, my heart felt lighter. With each heartfelt expression, their smiles grew brighter. With each placement, our awareness heightened.
It was nothing short of magical.
This morning they were content to add one each of their special ornaments, but were absolutely delighted to create a statement on a tiny scroll for their day, again taking positive action for their own happier reality.
My daughter wrote “I will be kind to others.” My son scribed “I will be nice” (he’s only six so, you know, cut him a little slack). I wrote “I will live the life I love: yoga, writing, wellness.”
It is, as my daughter said, “the best Christmas Tree EVER.”
The law of attraction is at work in our hearts, minds and spirits. May the year bring us (and you) all of that, and so much more.
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