BREAK SOMETHING

I had a breakthrough today. I’ve had it coming for about five years, and today, finally, I had it. I sat in a room with my ex husband and I looked at him without anger. I looked at him without a taste of bitterness in my mouth, my jaw ungrimaced,  my arms uncrossed, and my brow relaxed. I … Continue reading BREAK SOMETHING

BLUCK YOU

When my son was really young, say from about age 18 months to three or so, he had a favorite word, unique as his personality, and dropped more frequently than names on the red carpet. He would say it when he disliked his food. He would say it when I asked him to do something. … Continue reading BLUCK YOU

HOW TO KEEP F#CKING UP: THE TEN STEP PLAN

Things You Do That Make Your Life More Difficult 1. Blame Darwin Deny that evolution is happening all day, every day, like it or not (see definition- “things change over time” here). Refuse to change, resist anything new, continue doing what you ALWAYS do, because you’ve ALWAYS done it that way and you LIKE IT … Continue reading HOW TO KEEP F#CKING UP: THE TEN STEP PLAN